tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-577585659963026709.post4756498334398714704..comments2021-05-12T11:03:13.156-04:00Comments on The Unwedded Widow: I thought I knew you; what did I know?Hira Animfeftehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10463914387875684115noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-577585659963026709.post-82551049887230993222012-05-19T10:45:19.440-04:002012-05-19T10:45:19.440-04:00Hira, I found you on Twitter and immediately conne...Hira, I found you on Twitter and immediately connected since my husband that died was named "Nelson". I too, had a good friend, or at least I thought she was a good friend, until Nelson died. Then she just vanished out of my life. It was very strange. I think she just didn't know what to say. After the memorial service I ran into her one time. She said she just couldn't bear my sorrow when she had so many of her own problems going on (divorce). That was the last time I spoke to her. 15 years ago? Her loss. I just focused on the love and support from all my other friends. So sorry for your loss:( Come follow me on my blog widowspursuits.blogspot.comCindy Adamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331985802437217362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-577585659963026709.post-65802855243106597212012-02-15T00:44:18.449-05:002012-02-15T00:44:18.449-05:00She's not the only friend I've lost since ...She's not the only friend I've lost since losing Nelson. She was the first. Her loss was the worst, because of when it was. I had no defenses at that time. None. I have never been so naked to the world as I was then, and hope to never be so again.Hira Animfeftehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10463914387875684115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-577585659963026709.post-70094085925724632312012-02-14T06:39:25.371-05:002012-02-14T06:39:25.371-05:00I had no idea that you had to deal with this on to...I had no idea that you had to deal with this on top of everything else. I am so sorry.....Anam Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03960986859370967282noreply@blogger.com